Columine....I am in search of a 5th wheel hitch system. Pullrite appears to be a solid hitch and is somewhat lighter than the B&W Companion. Why did you select the PullRite? Im on the fence with these 2 hitches.
My primary goal was to have something I can remove myself without help or lifting equipment. Secondly, a hitch that will compensate for my short bed truck.
On those lines, I narrowed down to PullRite OEX, B&W Companion and Andersen Ultimate (latest model). I left out the Curt Sidewinder from the list (even though the rumblings about getting the frame warranty voided by Lippert) just because the hitch geometry didn't give me any particular sense of safety that the thing will stay attached.
That said, Andersen got out due to the plastic funnel, the wire release system and less position flexibility. So, as you, I was torn between PR and B&W. What made me decide for PR was that it has 6 possible position combinations on the spacing of the hitch and the trailer, it uses a ball pin so it gives more flexibility (and control) on hitching on uneven surfaces - already paying off big time - and it was generally lighter than B&W without the slide head. As a bonus, the slide head system can be installed afterwards.
But life is full of compromises so, the PullRite requires to lock the Rotaflex King Pin (OEM in the Valor) which makes you buy another part. The ball pin it is not common so no security locks available so far, and if someone else needs to hitch the trailer you will have to remove the ball pin. Other than that so far so good after about 1,500 mi of towing.