I thought I made a post on Saturday but it seems I must not have hit the Reply button so here I go again...
I opened up my transfer switch and the wires from the generator turned out to not be 6/3 wire, they are much thinner. This got me thinking that I could join the two black wires on L3 without using the multi-tap seeing that the factory installed two neutral wires in one lug. This was the first bit of fun, someone from the factory tightened those lugs like a gorilla with a breaker bar and the entire lug spun 90 degrees when I tried to loosen it. All 3 lugs for the generator were tightened in the same impossible fashion. This meant I had a broken lug and little hope of getting the others off. I used some penetrating oil spray and then an impact to get the other lugs off so I could know what I was working with. I ordered a new transfer switch that arrived quickly (ordered on Saturday and arrived today which is a Monday). I installed it tonight, joining the black wire and black with yellow strip wire on L3.
I ran the generator and the experiment did not work. I set the MP to 40A and as soon as I spun up the second AC unit the MP shut down. I backed it down to 20A and got the same result. I don't know what else to try so it looks like I may be stuck spending the dough on a Autoformer.